by Nancy Ross

Reflections: for couples

" Tell me how it feels for me to love you."

"Safe. You feel strong."

"What would you want to say if you were little?"

"Keep me safe. Tell me you love me. Hold my hand when I am scared."

"I can understand that you need me to tell you I love you. I imagine when I forget you get scared."

"Yes"

"I love you."

"Oh! Good!"

Reflections: for singles

" Each time I look at you I face myself. My pain is reflected in your face. When I can love me, I will be able to love you. When I can love me, I will be able to let you love me. I want to love. I want to want to love. I'm scared!"